Tuesday
Nov012011
Episode 3: "Friend Request"
Tuesday, November 1, 2011 at 01:26PM 
Our generation has been labeled the "Facebook Generation." Have you ever taken a step back from social media and wondered where all your REAL friends are?
Reader Comments (12)
Girls and women might rule the fb world since we like to share pics and just encourage people more than guys do I think. And though a fb friend might not be a close, every day person that knows the worst of us, a kind word can mean a lot when you need it! We still need that face to face, and I agree on that. :)
If someone says they're my friend or they love me and they never want to see me and don't make any effort, then I don't believe they love me or that they're my friend. I have to be shown. :) The Bible says love is an action, not just words.
It's interesting what Ginger said about the weak ties and strong ties. That explains a lot to me about people who have been more surface and haven't hung around.
Sometimes a friend is just there for a season. They mean a lot too, but we have to accept not everyone is meant to be a lifetime friend. Those are rare. If you have one, hang on to them like gold!
Friendship is give and take and it's so not cool to have a friend who never gives back. It's like, a weight you carry around but like, don't have the heart to just part ways.
I saw this site link on fb and decided to go to it to see what it's about. My luck is you're talking friendship. My best friend died in a car crash 3 yrs. ago and it's been hard to move on. I'm not trying to replace her, but sometimes compare new friends to her and know I shouldn't. It's hard but one day I know I'll have new memories and this won't hurt so bad like now.
Casey, That is one of the biggest attributes of a G.L.A.M. girl! Stepping up and taking responsibility for your actions both online and in person. You are an influence all the time. You should always be aware and set the example for others. Thank you so much for your comment, and please keep in touch!
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Shiloh,
Thank you for sharing your view on friendship with us. :) I agree with you, it is very important for friends to let each other know they are loved and valued. God made us all so different, and just as many different types of people exist, there are just as many ways to express our love to those we care about. Part of friendship is finding out how your friends give and receive that love. If you are having a hard time with "friends" that aren't treating you the way you expect friends to treat you, try talking with them about the things your find most valuable in a friend. Helping them understand that you need quality time and affirmation from your friends could help improve your relationship. :) Please keep in touch! We'd love to hear how things are going!
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Amanda
Holly,
Real friends are SO rare and valuable. cherish the ones you have, and always be open to those that may come your way! :) Keep in touch with us, we'd love to have your thoughts on our new podcasts!
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Amanda
April,
Friendship should always work both ways. Communicating your feelings and expectations may be the best way for you to handle friendships that seem one-sided. If your friend doesn't feel the same way, or chooses not to work on improving your relationship, they may prove to be one of those friends that is only there for a season. Letting go of toxic relationships can be painful, but it can also make you stronger. I'll be praying for you to have the strength you need to talk with your friend, and for a peaceful resolution. :) Let us know how things go and how we can continue to pray for you!
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Amanda
Laurel,
We are so sorry to hear about your friend passing. We too have experienced loss, and know how deeply you are hurting. Making new friends after such a tragedy can be very hard. Your friend was one-of-a-kind, and no one can ever take her place. Thank goodness no one ever will! We are all completely unique and designed to be irreplaceable. New friends that come along will never be able to fill her shoes, but that doesn't mean they can't be great friends to make and share new memories with. We are praying for you as your continue to grieve and heal. Please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing!
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Amanda... and the entire G.L.A.M. Team
Erin - Thanks for your comment! You and Holly Gloria are right... Realizing that not everyone is meant to be your best friend takes off a lot of the worry/pressure. Another name for a "weak tie" could be a "temporary tie." And if any long-term, strong-tie friends suddenly bail... those are the friends who may need confronting. Perhaps they are becoming a "bad" friend because they are experiencing trials or hurt themselves. Every friend and situation is unique!
Let us know if you have any other questions for a future podcast. :)